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Talking to Your Parents about Burial Life Insurance
When your parents show visible signs of physical aging, it is natural to offer to “be there” and help to provide for their needs. However, thoughts of who will be responsible for their final expenses may occur to you. For example, you may be wondering if you will be incurring a financial burden in the event of their death. It is never easy to discuss the topic of dying with your parents, but when family dynamics increase the difficulty of having this conversation, some people feel apprehensive and uncomfortable even mentioning any aspect of the subject.
The following suggestions should help you to have an objective, non-biased discussion:
Plan the Place, Time, and Invitation List
Research the Relevant Facts
Prepare for the meeting by doing research. Learn the facts that you believe your parents need to know so that they can make an informed decision. Naturally, most people do not want to leave their loved ones with the burden of having to finance their funerals. During the discussion, mention that a senior life insurance policy will provide an easy way to help pay for burial expenses. Whatever information you discuss should be restricted to the stated topic of the beneficial aspects of having a burial life insurance policy. The other facts you plan to present at the meeting should include an itemized list of expected funeral expenses. Be sure to mention the typical fees for embalmment, interment, flowers, and the other services that funeral directors provide. Your parents may not even be aware that even a modest burial casket is expensive.
Avoid Emotional Conversation
Although feeling apprehensive about the need to have this talk is perfectly natural, your goal is to minimize any disagreements. The conversation is likely to become emotional if your parents are not open to answering your questions. In order to have a productive conversation, be respectful and keep the tone tactful. Remember that any discussion of past emotional issues will likely hamper the outcome. Be sure to stay on the subject of final planning, and even though you may not like the answers you receive from your parents, it is still best not to outwardly criticize or judge their decisions. If your parents sense disapproval, they may get the impression that you do not respect their life experiences. Keep in mind that the goal of the conversation is to honor the final wishes of your parents. It is necessary to know what they are and how to make them as affordable as possible.
This may not be the easiest conversation to have with your parents, but it is one of the most important and selfless things you can do for them. Ultimately, you should be able to give them the gift of knowing you will carry out their final wishes.
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