Advocating for a Hospitalized Parent or Grandparent

You have plenty to think and worry about when your parent or grandparent is hospitalized. If you’re wondering how you can be a good patient advocate for them, keep a few things in mind:

Know Their Wishes

Keep your lines of communication open with your parent or grandparent when they are hospitalized. The Chicago Tribune says to talk about end-of-life care with them. Make sure you know where your parent or grandparent stands if their health care provider ever needs to know.¹ It might be a difficult conversation to have, but it’s worth having.

Be Communicative with Health Care Providers

Communicate regularly and clearly with your parent or grandparent’s health care providers. Johns Hopkins Medicine notes that “having two people hear the discussion and making sure they understand is much better than just one set of ears.”² Johns Hopkins Medicine also notes that good health advocates remain “calm, organized, assertive, and comfortable asking questions” when speaking with health care providers.

Also, be sure to write down questions you have for health care providers so you don’t forget them.

Discuss Power of Attorney and Living Will

The Chicago Tribune emphasizes the importance of organizing your paperwork. Have your parent or grandparent sign a power of attorney health care form, which allows the individuals of the patient’s choice to make decisions on their behalf should they become incapacitated. Also, have them make a living will to document their health care preferences.

Bring an Essentials Bag to the Hospital

Make sure your loved one has everything they need while hospitalized. In addition to toiletries and extra socks, the Chicago Tribune suggests bringing cell phone and tablet chargers as well as copies of important, relevant documents.

Ask for Help When You Need It

During your time as advocate for your hospitalized parent or grandparent, you have the role as their helper. Remember that you, too, may need help and support from friends and family. So don’t hesitate to ask for it. If you want to do your best for your parent or grandparent, you have to be at your best. Seek assistance when you need it.

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